Tuesday night Monica called me about 9:45pm. She was in a lot of pain and wanted me to come over. I dropped everything I was doing and hurried to her apartment. I asked if she wanted me to take her somewhere to take care of it, and she refused. She asked me to stay with her the night in case she did need to go somewhere, so I did.
At midnight she woke me up. She told me the pain was unbearable. I said that we should go to the ER, but she hemmed and hawed and tried to think of anything else she could do. It became apparent quickly that she didn't have any other options, so I took her to the MCA ER.
The pain was coming from her abdomen, so I thought MCA should be the place to go as they have a lot of bariatric surgeons on their staff. (One of them did my gastric bypass last year.) To the ER we went, and after doing all the tests that they do, they said that what was causing her problems was her gallbladder, and it needed to come out in the next two or three weeks. We were hoping that they would put her on the schedule and take it out that night, but instead they discharged her with some prescriptions and a referral to some of their surgeons.
The next day was Wednesday, and I called and made her an appointment with one of the surgeons on the ER's list. Monica was in pain, but she sent me to work all the same. She called me early Thursday morning and asked me to come back and stay with her as she was still hurting badly. I did.
Thursday we called around to some other surgeons to find a quicker appointment. The one we had was to see the surgeon on Monday with no date for surgery. Today we got an appointment to see a surgeon at 1pm. We went to the surgeon, and after a cursory look at the records, and a quick physical exam, and Monica was on the surgery schedule for Monday morning. I went to work and stayed with her again that night.
Friday I took her to the hospital to get her pre-registered and have her lab work done. We nearly had a disaster as the hospital insisted on collecting half of their fee up front. Monica didn't have the money and ended up applying for what amounts to a hospital credit card. I offered to pay some of the remaining expenses, but she flatly refused to let me and instead signed a promissory note for the remaining money. I again went to work and came to stay with her for the weekend as she really has nobody else to do that for her.
Saturday turned out to be busier than I had anticipated. I had a bridal portrait session scheduled. I considered canceling it, but was glad I didn't--more to that story later. I left Monica a couple of hours to do the shoot, then came back to her apartment. She didn't want to be cooped up, she said, so we went to Half Priced Books to just bum around. It was pretty clear she was in pain and wasn't enjoying what we were doing, and we soon left to go to my house to pick up my computer and let her rest. I did a few things around my house while she napped on my sofa. She said it was the best rest she had gotten during this ordeal due to my sofa being the "comfiest." Eventually we made our way back to her apartment and stayed in for the night.
That brings me to today. After yet another night with Monica, she was feeling that she wanted some alone time. She was looking ok, so I went home for a while, took in the first football games of the season, and did a little shopping. This evening I returned to lend more support to Monica in anticipation of her surgery tomorrow.
She has been moody the entire time, and tonight it all caught up with her. She says that she doesn't know what kind of relationship we have or if we even have one. She's afraid that I'll think she's needy because of this ordeal. There was more, but that's the upshot and all that needs to be said. Truth be told I don't know where we are myself save to say that we've been dating for a month (or less depending on Monica and when you ask) and neither of us really know what kind of commitment we're ready to make. To me that's all immaterial when someone is sick or in pain, so I consider this time of sickness an interlude in the process. How it turns out is yet to be seen.
Stay tuned, folks, it ain't over yet!
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