The Ex-Files: Vindictiveness Abounds In Grade School

Well, I didn't think I'd be writing about Monica so soon after my last post, but there has been a development. While we were together, we did some geocaching together, and I found some of her caches. In one case I found her cache all by my lonesome. In the other cases I found them with her--she wanted to show them to me. In the game of Geocaching you go and find the cache, physically sign the log, then post a log online. That's what I did.

Last night I got several emails from the geocaching site informing me that my logs had been deleted. Tonight I got over a dozen more to the same effect. Monica decided to delete all of my logs. She decided to delete them even though she knows I found them and signed the logs. I guess she has decided that I am no longer worthy to even associate with her, however tangential it may be.

This kind of behavior I can only describe as juvenile, to the point of grade school. When we broke up she insisted that I deliver all of "her" stuff to her apartment (even though I had bought and paid for it all), and do it on her schedule. To avoid any unpleasantness, I carted it all to her apartment office on a day I could make it and delivered it. She turned around and gave half of it away. Then she unfriended me on Facebook. Then she called and left a nasty voicemail on my phone a couple of weeks after the breakup. Now she has decided to try to get back at me by taking away points in a game. Demanding "her" stuff back was pretty brazen, but somewhat understandable. Unfriending me and engaging in name-calling transcends sophomoric. Taking away points in a game? Could we be in grade school? I remember doing stuff like that when I was in third grade.

I hope this is the last episode in the Ex-Files for awhile--I detest soap operas.